..untuk cari calon isteri lagi – NGERTI?
..tambah lagi loe udah punya anak dan isteri
Gw gak pernah nagih simpati.. bisa aja deh hidup sendiri!
fb bukan tempatnya untuk cari calon isteri lagi – NGERTI?
..kalau loe masih nyorok di belakang namanya isteri
Ha, kalau loe betul berani.. bawa-in aja isteri loe ke mari! *mau aja gw gocah dengan cili padi!*
fb bukan tempatnya untuk cari calon isteri lagi – NGERTI?
..jangan salah tafsir dong keramahan gw dalam merendah diri
Aiyoh Pak, usah perasan deh..gw jauh sekali daripada menaruh hati
fb bukan tempatnya untuk cari calon isteri lagi – NGERTI?
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fb simply bukan tempatnya.. NGERTI?!!!@$%#^%$^&$!!!! *kalau mau gw bisa aja lapor ke kantor polisi @ sexual harassment?*
Wednesday, 1 December 2010
Tuesday, 23 November 2010
An Unholy Proposal
..the sort that I have been waiting for so long but NOT from the right person. *Uurghh!!*
What makes it so wrong?
You misinterpreted my warmth and friendliness with something else. I thought I was only closing the gap between the administrative staff and the academics. I treated you no different from the way I talked to (or eat together with) the office driver (not that I am looking down on the person and the job but the driver was of different race and married too) and others.
You dare to think that you are only wanting to help me - an unmarried (yet!) lady – before I reach 40 and become more desperate? Oh P.L.E.A.S.E…….
You make it such that the ‘blessed invite’ came from your wife? You think I’m that stupid?
You think highly of yourself – at least I dare to be open & honest *konon* - so you proposed to me during office hour at my office? I might be slow in terms of responding but... man, what you did is totally not honourable!!
You thought and did sweetened the ‘whole deal’ by offering me packet of cucur udang which I ate before the you came clean? Not that I need to worry about black magic since:
…But they could not thus harm anyone except by Allah's permission. And they learned what harmed them not what profited them. And they knew that the buyers of (magic) would have no share in the happiness of the Hereafter. And vile was the price for which they did sell their souls, if they but knew! (Holy Quran: Baqarah #102)
God, please..
What makes it so wrong?
You misinterpreted my warmth and friendliness with something else. I thought I was only closing the gap between the administrative staff and the academics. I treated you no different from the way I talked to (or eat together with) the office driver (not that I am looking down on the person and the job but the driver was of different race and married too) and others.
You dare to think that you are only wanting to help me - an unmarried (yet!) lady – before I reach 40 and become more desperate? Oh P.L.E.A.S.E…….
You make it such that the ‘blessed invite’ came from your wife? You think I’m that stupid?
You think highly of yourself – at least I dare to be open & honest *konon* - so you proposed to me during office hour at my office? I might be slow in terms of responding but... man, what you did is totally not honourable!!
You thought and did sweetened the ‘whole deal’ by offering me packet of cucur udang which I ate before the you came clean? Not that I need to worry about black magic since:
…But they could not thus harm anyone except by Allah's permission. And they learned what harmed them not what profited them. And they knew that the buyers of (magic) would have no share in the happiness of the Hereafter. And vile was the price for which they did sell their souls, if they but knew! (Holy Quran: Baqarah #102)
God, please..
Monday, 25 October 2010
I am looking for a simple guy..
..who is ‘able to respond’. (define 'responsible')
1. Was it too much to ask for a half-gentleman? At the very least, I had started the ball rolling for you..I made the first call, left a message..and all you can messaged much later was that, “Sorry2x..tengah khusyuk tengok bola?” Prftttttt!!
2. (A variation of the ‘same theme’ in fb: Prfttttttttttt!!!!)
3. Was it too much to ask for you to answer that One Single Question? After all, you did answer all the rest of my insubstantial questions. No answer is already an answer by itself, I guess..(Yes, rad who is 'always jump into conclusions..'). No need to come back looking for me the next day, as if nothing had happened, and said, “Apa cer?” Prfttttttttttt!!!!
4. Was it too much to ask for a half-sensitive decent guy? I know everyone nowadays come with emotional baggages…yes, even a metrosexual guy like you. Do you have to read too much into my statements? Maybe I need to a have a permanent sign on me, “Rad who is always putting her foot in her mouth!” Prfttttttttttt!!!!
5. And there were you, yes YOU - the one over there. Did you know that I have make peace with myself, forgive you (even if there is nothing to forgive according to your standard) deleted you from my YM (after sending you an email a long, long time ago (and no reply), thanking you for the supports & prayers so far), and think of all the goods things that may happen to you? Was it fair to me when you simply came out of the blue in YM & say, “Salam rad…” and left me waiting for 2 nights & days (spoilt my whole weekend too with needless anticipation) for your respond to a simple question, “Where are you now?” All I thought was, “Now, we can be friends…at least!” Prftttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt!!!!
Honestly, don't you bother now...I gave up!
1. Was it too much to ask for a half-gentleman? At the very least, I had started the ball rolling for you..I made the first call, left a message..and all you can messaged much later was that, “Sorry2x..tengah khusyuk tengok bola?” Prftttttt!!
2. (A variation of the ‘same theme’ in fb: Prfttttttttttt!!!!)
3. Was it too much to ask for you to answer that One Single Question? After all, you did answer all the rest of my insubstantial questions. No answer is already an answer by itself, I guess..(Yes, rad who is 'always jump into conclusions..'). No need to come back looking for me the next day, as if nothing had happened, and said, “Apa cer?” Prfttttttttttt!!!!
4. Was it too much to ask for a half-sensitive decent guy? I know everyone nowadays come with emotional baggages…yes, even a metrosexual guy like you. Do you have to read too much into my statements? Maybe I need to a have a permanent sign on me, “Rad who is always putting her foot in her mouth!” Prfttttttttttt!!!!
5. And there were you, yes YOU - the one over there. Did you know that I have make peace with myself, forgive you (even if there is nothing to forgive according to your standard) deleted you from my YM (after sending you an email a long, long time ago (and no reply), thanking you for the supports & prayers so far), and think of all the goods things that may happen to you? Was it fair to me when you simply came out of the blue in YM & say, “Salam rad…” and left me waiting for 2 nights & days (spoilt my whole weekend too with needless anticipation) for your respond to a simple question, “Where are you now?” All I thought was, “Now, we can be friends…at least!” Prftttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt!!!!
Honestly, don't you bother now...I gave up!
Sunday, 10 October 2010
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Sunday, 20 June 2010
Tragedi 30 Mei 2010
My last fb update on May 30th @8:39am:
..perfect weather for cruising on da hi-way! Current pit stop @bangi
Fb's status update on June 1st:
Dear family & friends (yg berkenaan), harap bertenang - don't want mak to worry. I'm now MAV-less & 019-phoneless post-one car accident on 30 May, before Kamunting exit. Alhamdulillah no injury either to myself (except for very minor cuts & bruises & major sengalness) or other people. Very much indebted to all my colleagues who helped with police report/wshop/insurance claim/recovery process.
Fb's status update on June 1st:
Dear family & friends (yg berkenaan), harap bertenang - don't want mak to worry. I'm now MAV-less & 019-phoneless post-one car accident on 30 May, before Kamunting exit. Alhamdulillah no injury either to myself (except for very minor cuts & bruises & major sengalness) or other people. Very much indebted to all my colleagues who helped with police report/wshop/insurance claim/recovery process.
What happang?
..ngantuk ke atau try to beat your time?
..ko melanggar or ko dilanggar?
..kan akak kata jgn tekan 160! take life slow and easy babe.
..since when kau merempit kereta ni?
..kalau aku, paranoid 6 bln from driving ler...
2nd June's update:
..my 019 is back in service. I'm ok really other than some neck pain (kinda whiplash injury). Rest assured that Dr (medical) said no need x-ray or anythg coz kalau melibatkan bone dari awal2 lagi..
4th June's update:
..MAV = total loss? Anybody here working with Etiqa takaful who can help me expedite the process of ethg?
I'm not proud of the above photos at all - the 'split second accident can happen' moments still running thru my mind. How can it happened to me? Me?
So, sebagai pengajaran kepada semua gangster jalanan, minah rempit, Micheal Shumacher wannabe etc. out there:
INGATLAH INSAN YANG TERSAYANG
..KELAJUAN ITU MEMBUNUH
..BIAR LAMBAT ASAL SELAMAT
..SESAL DULU PENDAPATAN, SESAL KEMUDIAN TIADA GUNANYA
"Kita pun buat salah juga. Tuhan nak menegur.....ada silap kat mana-mana. Cuba muhasabah diri..." dialog dari Nur Kasih
Alhamdulillah...
"Maka yang mana satu di antara nikmat-nikmat Tuhan kamu, yang kamu hendak dustakan (wahai umat manusia dan jin)?" Ar-Rahman
To cut short the story:
I've had an accident on 30 May, on the way back to PP. Alhamdulillah I'm ok but the car is not. Still (a long, long..) waiting for the insurance adjuster to come to the panel workshop. Whatever the outcome, then I've a long, long wait for repairs to be done - too many cars-in-waiting or being declared as total loss! Er, not much la considering 8 yrs oredi maaa...
Mamat: tgk gambor macam keta swirl ke kiri, hit something then berpusing 360 in the air, doing nose job with grass, land all 4s. the driver pakai seat belt,kalu tak pakai..lagi nahas...betui ker?
Moi: Er, lebih kurang betui la. Swerved to the left (& hit nothing) in order to avoid hitting the cars in front & on the right lane. According to the tow truck (was I lucky or what? MasyaAllah..) & taxi driver(s) behind me at that time, the car rolled over 2,3 times - down the slope - before it stopped. And yes, alhamdulillah was wearing seat belt.
Mamat: syukur selamat...maksudnya keta yg dipandu dpt markah tinggi dlm roll test n landing all 4s. bravo to proton. perkara nih boleh jadik pada sesiapa pun...thanks, lepas ni saya akan lebih beringat semasa memandu.
Ah-kak: akak tengok ni akak rasa cam nak drive 80km jer! bab roll over tu, ya Allah rad, seb baik u selamat. bab laju slow tu, now you know drive musti slow, jodoh musti laju....he he he, aminnnnn
Moi: It helped that tanah tpt landing jenis sawah & lembut - basah lepas hujan. Ya kawan2, marilah lebih berhati2 semasa memandu! Banyakkan bersabar... *peringatan utk diri sendiri* Kak, actually @my uni dah ada kajian kata 80kmph tu mmg abis efficient lah! hehehe...cumanya kenalah ada teman berborak. Hmmm...that brings second issue to mind - somebody make an appearance again after 2 months *gasp!!* Apakah?
Another friend said: ..the car boleh beli baru kan, tapi rad ada 1 je.. syukur!!
P/s 1: Yup, rad will rempit no more huhuhu..waktu accident tu kan cuma terpikir, kesian kat mak (insan tersayang) kalau saya pergi dulu..
P/s 2: The accident photos tu using my camera but were taken by the tow-truck driver. He said, kena amik pix sebelum boleh alih kereta & I told him to used my camera instead of tunggu polis/PLUS.
P/s 3: Walking to & fro ofc (& hitching rides) are more agreeable to me nowadays!!
-Bekas gangster jalanan, minah rempit, Micheal Shumacher wannabe, stuntwoman etc. who is given a SECOND CHANCE-
Tuesday, 4 May 2010
So many things on my mind..
..nothing new there right?
I’ll let you know some secret that I’m supposed to keep tight:
Somebody is addicted to heroine for almost as long as I’ve lived – all tender *ahem!* 34 years. All these while, everybody thought he’s smoking cigarettes only – a heavy-duty chain-smoker. *He quited point-blank*
Somebody has two teenagers who still sleep together with both parents on their king-size bed. Aren’t that worrying? *SOLVED*
Somebody finds love again, for the second time. Problem is the wife has just gave birth to their 4th child. *recalled the love*
Somebody is involved in a love-triangle & live in a make-believe world. He is deeply infatuated with the Heroine while she’s happily in love with the Hero, of course….He said that she’s fat, simply because no other things to say…
Somebody is put in a difficult situation when the wife of a being-consulted person suddenly called & they talked about the third-party, being not that somebody la!
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I wrote the above entry some time late last year and forgot all about it..even who's who for some of the 'stories' above!
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I'm trying hard to 'change' for a better me, esp. speak less, slowly & not so loud..
It's embarrassing when people like my colleagues mentioned that they can hear my voice from the top floor when they're in ground floor, or outside my room; friend asking me to 'boleh cakap perlahan sikit tak' over the phone; those who share 'things' with me only to be followed with statement like pls-keep-it-to-yourself etc. etc.
Maybe I need to be back at blogging regularly to sort my jumble up feelings & thinkings, sorta organized everything in a nice compartment...
I’ll let you know some secret that I’m supposed to keep tight:
Somebody is addicted to heroine for almost as long as I’ve lived – all tender *ahem!* 34 years. All these while, everybody thought he’s smoking cigarettes only – a heavy-duty chain-smoker. *He quited point-blank*
Somebody has two teenagers who still sleep together with both parents on their king-size bed. Aren’t that worrying? *SOLVED*
Somebody finds love again, for the second time. Problem is the wife has just gave birth to their 4th child. *recalled the love*
Somebody is involved in a love-triangle & live in a make-believe world. He is deeply infatuated with the Heroine while she’s happily in love with the Hero, of course….He said that she’s fat, simply because no other things to say…
Somebody is put in a difficult situation when the wife of a being-consulted person suddenly called & they talked about the third-party, being not that somebody la!
___
I wrote the above entry some time late last year and forgot all about it..even who's who for some of the 'stories' above!
___
I'm trying hard to 'change' for a better me, esp. speak less, slowly & not so loud..
It's embarrassing when people like my colleagues mentioned that they can hear my voice from the top floor when they're in ground floor, or outside my room; friend asking me to 'boleh cakap perlahan sikit tak' over the phone; those who share 'things' with me only to be followed with statement like pls-keep-it-to-yourself etc. etc.
Maybe I need to be back at blogging regularly to sort my jumble up feelings & thinkings, sorta organized everything in a nice compartment...
Sunday, 2 May 2010
..hang out my shingle..NOT yet!
To those (in the same boat) who had followed my 'long-winded journey: 2003-2009, full of self-commenserating & whining blablabla', here is the new beginning!!! It could be yours too.
P/s: Door wide open for business consultation but not medical prescription hehe..
Friday, 23 April 2010
..tonite is the nite!!
After maghrib, (cue music All-4-One's So Much in Love):
As we strolled along together,
(NO) holding hands walking all along Gurney Drive......
...
As we walked by the sea together,
under stars twinkling high above.....
(talked about relationships in general, marriage in particular)
Maka, kami pon tibalah di Gurney Drive punya tpt makan tu. Cheq dgn muka tak malunya order lah pasemborq (pinggan besar- utk share berdua!), char kue teow & laksa Penang, drinks pon gelas besaq. Sambung sembang tak ingat dunia sampai la dekat 12 mlm kot, tu pon blah pasai gerai2 nak tutup dah.
Then, we strolled back to the hotel (cancelled off taking a cab, not cheapskate lah but to burn more calories).
On the way back tu, the person said, why don't you just stay with me tonite? *Wawawa!!* I already had my overnite bag in my car boot
(To be continued...) Ngantuk la!
As we strolled along together,
(NO) holding hands walking all along Gurney Drive......
...
As we walked by the sea together,
under stars twinkling high above.....
(talked about relationships in general, marriage in particular)
Maka, kami pon tibalah di Gurney Drive punya tpt makan tu. Cheq dgn muka tak malunya order lah pasemborq (pinggan besar- utk share berdua!), char kue teow & laksa Penang, drinks pon gelas besaq. Sambung sembang tak ingat dunia sampai la dekat 12 mlm kot, tu pon blah pasai gerai2 nak tutup dah.
Then, we strolled back to the hotel (cancelled off taking a cab, not cheapskate lah but to burn more calories).
On the way back tu, the person said, why don't you just stay with me tonite? *Wawawa!!* I already had my overnite bag in my car boot
(To be continued...) Ngantuk la!
Tuesday, 13 April 2010
Err..
After I said, "All hope is gone..." somebody told me to give it another try - you know, just be friends, no expectation and things like that.
So, I messaged him on the pretext of asking where to go for early dinner since I've a visitor. I invited him along, and offered to pick him up. Called him to confirm the pick up point.
My special visitor said, given the earlier discreet instruction to 'look him over' during our threesome dinner, "Ok, he passed!" (sort of la, meaning he looks normal, act normal - even cute? hahaha...I couldn't remember exactly)
Only that it took him three weeks after that dinner (including thank you message immediately after I sent him home, in front of his gate) to call me again, for breakfast together, yesterday.
Honestly, I don't know what to make of him..
My advisor (you know who you are) said, "Don't superanalyse him...don't be too intense.."
P/s: Someone else is bugging my mind too. Help! I couldn't concentrate..
So, I messaged him on the pretext of asking where to go for early dinner since I've a visitor. I invited him along, and offered to pick him up. Called him to confirm the pick up point.
My special visitor said, given the earlier discreet instruction to 'look him over' during our threesome dinner, "Ok, he passed!" (sort of la, meaning he looks normal, act normal - even cute? hahaha...I couldn't remember exactly)
Only that it took him three weeks after that dinner (including thank you message immediately after I sent him home, in front of his gate) to call me again, for breakfast together, yesterday.
Honestly, I don't know what to make of him..
My advisor (you know who you are) said, "Don't superanalyse him...don't be too intense.."
P/s: Someone else is bugging my mind too. Help! I couldn't concentrate..
Friday, 19 March 2010
I tried, honestly I did try hard enough...
..maybe i was too harsh on him.
..maybe I'm too critical, demanding, picky, choosy or whatever.
..maybe he's testing me now.
So I thought why not give it another chance..
..but then he called me (over the phone), "Babe!" BABE????!!!!!!
Not once, twice.
All hope is gone I guess. *knockforeheadonthewall* Duh2x!
..maybe I'm too critical, demanding, picky, choosy or whatever.
..maybe he's testing me now.
So I thought why not give it another chance..
..but then he called me (over the phone), "Babe!" BABE????!!!!!!
Not once, twice.
All hope is gone I guess. *knockforeheadonthewall* Duh2x!
Saturday, 13 March 2010
How to guarantee that you won’t be out for a second date with a MATURE lady…
Say, the two of you are ‘sorta matchmake’ by a concern friend of yours, with your respective blessings.
Given the distance in the locations, you, all the way from KL, agreed immediately (1 Bonus point here– don’t waste anymore time with IM, SMS or phone calls) for a meet up after office hour on a work day, in Kajang. Extra bonus point for you!
However,
1. when you arrived late, blaming the traffic jam (nothing new there!) and in such a bad mood…*who could you blame?* It spoilt the (date) mood too – DEDUCT 1 point
2. when you asked direction from parking place to the restaurant without giving your coordinate, must you blamed her for giving the wrong directions and thus making you ran around in circle? After all, she’s not familiar with the shopping complex too – DEDUCT another point
3. when you barged ahead, I repeat - on the first date, about getting married straight away… DEDUCT another point
4. when you asked details about her car and housing loans and then mentioned about your limo-for-rental business and how you take a bank loan using the matchmaker name since you name has been blacklisted which mean blablablah…DEDUCT 10 points & ..
*Quick2x! Run for cover!!*
Given the distance in the locations, you, all the way from KL, agreed immediately (1 Bonus point here– don’t waste anymore time with IM, SMS or phone calls) for a meet up after office hour on a work day, in Kajang. Extra bonus point for you!
However,
1. when you arrived late, blaming the traffic jam (nothing new there!) and in such a bad mood…*who could you blame?* It spoilt the (date) mood too – DEDUCT 1 point
2. when you asked direction from parking place to the restaurant without giving your coordinate, must you blamed her for giving the wrong directions and thus making you ran around in circle? After all, she’s not familiar with the shopping complex too – DEDUCT another point
3. when you barged ahead, I repeat - on the first date, about getting married straight away… DEDUCT another point
4. when you asked details about her car and housing loans and then mentioned about your limo-for-rental business and how you take a bank loan using the matchmaker name since you name has been blacklisted which mean blablablah…DEDUCT 10 points & ..
*Quick2x! Run for cover!!*
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